5 Secrets On How To Make Your Partner Happy
“A partner to share the ups and downs with. Honor and strength, and knowing you’re stronger together than apart”
- Donna Alward
According to Professor Peter McDonald from Australian Bureau of Statistics, married men and women are enjoying a longer life span compared to their friends who are single.
Some of the main reasons behind this are:
1. There is always someone to care you, when you are married .
2. You will get constant feedback and advise about your lifestyle, which will act as a reminder to live more consciously.
3. When you have a supporting income it reduces your stress level, which will help you in living a longer life.
4. You improve your immunity by love making with your partner . Didn’t you know this?
Well, now you know the benefits of having a partner.
Please read 10 Interesting facts Why Get Married if you want to have some more compelling reasons to get married.
For any successful relationship you should be able to make your partner happy. This is a naked truth which no one can deny.
So, the next question would be How to make your partner happy?
Myself and my wife have been giving high importance to keep each other happy ever since we got married.
My wife has written a killer article on 22 Happy Marriage Tips, through which she stole my heart and soul. This is something which you can do to make your partner happy.
Thank you for reading the heartening article written by my wife and welcome back to explore the tips on how to make your partner happy.
1. Understand why God has given us 2 ears and 1 mouth
God has given us 2 ears and 1 mouth because God knows that listening is twice as important as speaking.
You need not do anything fancy to make your partner happy. The first and foremost thing is to give them quality time by listening to them. Especially women just want men to listen to them..I’m sorry..At times your male ego plays the little tricks. To be honest, both men and women love to be listened..
However, this needs tremendous patience and you should always give importance to the other person, but not you. When you listen to your partner, they will be more inclined to listen to you as well.. Eventually, this leads to a mutually respectable relationship . Wonderful, isn’t it?
2. Your hands are not just meant for eating, brushing or typing.
Are you wondering what this guy is saying? Take a deep breath..! And did you take the deep breath? Probably, you didn’t, I guess. Now you are wondering how I was able to see that you have not taken a deep breath.
He he he..Its so simple. People don’t listen to instructions so easily ..! Now, let’s get back on track.
Use your hands to hug your partner, to hold their hands while you walk, to lift your partner, to pull their head towards your shoulder when they are sad and I will leave the rest to your imagination .
My point here is very simple – Please express your feelings and emotions openly. This will definitely make your partner feel happy. I am saying this from my solid experience .
3. Respect their Map of the world
You need to understand that both of you come from totally 2 different worlds. Difference of opinion is bound to happen as a result of this.
It is always better to change yourself rather than changing your partner. This is something which I have learned from people who have had successful partnerships for many years.
When you start respecting your partner’s world, which is shaped as a result of their genes, past experiences, people with whom they have interacted and many other factors, they will definitely respect your map of the world as well. Stop blaming your partner and seek to understand what makes them behave in such a way.
4. Who said that all the problems in this world can be solved?
Please understand, “It is better to leave certain problems as it is, rather than trying to solve it.”
The situation only aggravates when you try to correct certain problems in your partner. Accept your partner as they are and learn to adjust yourself to that particular person. Disagreements are bound to happen when two people live together for a long time. That’s just part and parcel of life.
5. Your partner is always your first child
Isn’t that beautiful??
Who doesn’t want to be treated like a baby, with lots of love, care and affection.
Your partner should always be your first child. Tell this to them quite often. I do this with my wife, and you should see the joy in her face when she listens to this from me.
I have also coined a list of simple things to make people happy. This will give you more ideas on how to make your partner happy.
Can you share some creative ideas you use to make your partner happy?